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Your Life and The Lives Around You

by Gary Tate

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Do you find yourself at times wondering “What is the meaning of life?” 

 

Just like you and me, people from all walks of life have pondered one of the most profound and timeless questions: “What is the meaning of life?” This question goes beyond cultures, generations, and backgrounds, yet the search for an answer often leads us down many different paths.

 

You are likely to recognise some of the following traits or behaviours.

 

Some individuals believe that success, financial wealth, or social status will bring them lasting happiness and a sense of fulfillment. They dedicate their lives to building careers, acquiring material possessions, or striving for personal achievement—only to realize that these things are never truly enough.

 

Others turn to philosophy, science, or intellectual pursuits, hoping that knowledge alone will provide the answers they seek. While learning and discovery can bring insight, they often leave people with more questions than answers.

 

Many seek meaning through romantic relationships, friendships, or family bonds, believing that love will fill the emptiness within them. While relationships can bring joy and companionship, no human connection can fully satisfy the deepest longings of the soul.

 

Despite these relentless efforts, millions of people just like you and me continue to feel lost, unfulfilled, and uncertain about their true purpose in life. No matter how much they achieve or how many different paths they explore, they find themselves asking the same question: "Is this all there is?"

 

However, the Bible reveals that the answer to this question has been clear and unchanged since the very beginning:

 

Ecclesiastes 12:13 – "Fear God and keep His commandments, for this is the whole duty of man." This passage, from Ecclesiastes 12:13, means that the most important thing in life is to respect God ("fear God" means to honor and obey Him) and to follow His commandments (live according to His teachings). This verse tells us that our purpose is not found in temporary worldly pursuits but in our relationship with God. 

 

In this chapter, we will explore why we can feel lost, why the world’s answers always fall short, and how only God can provide the true meaning and fulfillment we seek.
 

Despite living in a world that offers unprecedented technological advancements, financial opportunities, and unlimited access to knowledge, millions of people still experience a deep sense of emptiness, anxiety, and lack of direction in life. With so many comforts and conveniences at our fingertips, one might expect to feel more fulfilled than ever before—yet the opposite is true.

 

Why is it that, even in an age of prosperity and self-empowerment, we can struggle with feelings of restlessness, dissatisfaction, and despair? What is missing from our lives? To answer these questions, we must first understand the ways in which the world seeks fulfillment—and why these worldly pursuits can frequently leave us feeling empty.

 

Everywhere we look, we see a world desperately trying to find meaning and purpose. People chase after money, status, and pleasure, hoping that these things will bring lasting happiness, but in the end, they only lead to frustration and disappointment.

 

  • Rates of depression and anxiety have reached record highs, even in the most developed nations.

  • Famous individuals who seem to “have it all”—including wealth, beauty, and power—often battle addiction, failed marriages, or even thoughts of suicide.

  • No matter how much people achieve, acquire, or experience, they remain unsatisfied, always wanting more.

 

The Bible shows us that this struggle is nothing new. Even thousands of years ago, King Solomon, one of the most successful and powerful men in history, faced the same dilemma.

 

  • King Solomon had everything the world tells us should bring happiness.

  • He possessed unimaginable wealth, ruling over one of the most prosperous kingdoms in history.

  • He was renowned for his wisdom, sought after by leaders from around the world.

  • He had access to every pleasure and luxury a person could desire.

 

Yet despite all of this, Solomon eventually concluded that everything he had was meaningless without God. Ecclesiastes 1:2 – "Meaningless! Meaningless! Everything is meaningless!"

 

Solomon’s words remind us that worldly success, pleasure, and knowledge cannot fill the void in our hearts. True fulfillment does not come from what we gain in life—but rather from the One who created us.

 

If wealth, relationships, knowledge, and pleasure cannot provide lasting fulfillment, then why do we continue to feel empty? The answer is simple: humanity is separated from its Creator.

Isaiah 59:2 – "Your iniquities have separated you from your God; your sins have hidden His face from you."

The deep longing that we experience is not a longing for more success, more love, or more pleasure—it is a longing to be restored to God. We were created to be in a relationship with Him, but sin has broken that connection.

 

The Human Condition: Why We Feel Disconnected from Our Purpose

  • God designed us for a relationship with Him—our very purpose is rooted in knowing, loving, and worshiping Him.

  • Sin entered the world through human disobedience (Genesis 3), separating us from God and leaving us spiritually lost.

  • Without God, life will always feel incomplete—no matter what we try to replace Him with.

 

Modern Example: Celebrities Who Still Feel Empty

  • Even today, countless celebrities and influential figures—who have achieved fame, wealth, and global admiration—openly admit that they still feel like something is missing.

  • Despite winning awards, gaining millions of followers, and achieving what most people dream of, they continue to struggle with depression, addiction, and existential emptiness.

  • Many of them, in their moments of vulnerability, confess: "I thought reaching the top would make me happy, but I still feel lost."

 

What they are missing is not another achievement or another success story—what they are missing is God.

 

The reality is this: Until we restore our relationship with God, we will never find true peace, fulfillment, or meaning in life.

 

Take a moment to think about this : Understanding Our Lost Condition Is the First Step Toward Finding Our True Purpose. The emptiness we can feel in our hearts is not a mystery—it is a direct result of being disconnected from the One who created us. The world will continue to offer temporary solutions that never satisfy, but the truth remains the same: We are lost without God, and only He can give our lives meaning.

 

Throughout history, human beings have attempted to find meaning and fulfillment through four primary areas: success, relationships, knowledge, and pleasure. While these pursuits may offer temporary satisfaction, they never provide lasting peace, joy, or purpose.

 

No matter how much a person achieves, gains, or experiences, they will always find themselves wanting more, searching for the next goal, and feeling an unshakable sense of emptiness. This is because we were created for something far greater than what the world can offer.

 

Let’s examine these four common areas where people seek fulfillment—only to be left disappointed.
 

A. Success & Money: The Illusion of Wealth as the Key to Happiness

One of the most common beliefs in the world today is that wealth, power, and success will bring lasting happiness and fulfillment. Many people dedicate their entire lives to climbing the corporate ladder, building businesses, or acquiring vast fortunes—only to find that they still feel empty inside.

 

The Reality: No matter how much money someone earns, they always want more.

The wealthiest individuals in history have admitted that money does not bring true peace or contentment.

 

Possessions, luxury, and power may bring momentary pleasure, but they cannot fill the void in the human soul.

 

Example: The Words of a BillionaireJohn D. Rockefeller, one of the richest men who ever lived, was once asked, “How much money is enough?” His response was revealing:“Just a little bit more.” This simple yet profound statement highlights a universal truth: the pursuit of wealth is never-ending, and it never truly satisfies.

 

The Bible warns us about placing our hope in material success: Matthew 16:26 – "What good will it be for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul?" True fulfillment is not found in accumulating wealth but in seeking God.

 

B. Relationships & Love: The Myth That Another Person Can Complete You

Many people believe that finding “the one”—their soulmate or perfect partner—will bring them ultimate happiness and fulfillment. They invest everything in romantic relationships, hoping that love will fill the void in their hearts.

 

The Reality: While love and companionship are blessings from God, no human relationship can replace our need for a relationship with God. Even in the happiest marriages, people still experience loneliness, struggles, and disappointments. When we expect another person to provide the ultimate meaning of our lives, we place an impossible burden on them. 

 

Example: The Search for True Rest. Many people spend their lives searching for someone who will bring them peace and security—yet true rest can only be found in God.

 

Psalm 62:5 – "Find rest, O my soul, in God alone; my hope comes from Him."

This verse reminds us that only God can fill the deepest needs of the human heart. While relationships can bring joy, companionship, and support, they are not the ultimate answer to life’s meaning.
 

C. Knowledge & Science: The Limits of Human Wisdom. Some people believe that the key to life’s purpose lies in education, intellectual achievement, philosophy, or scientific discovery. They dedicate their lives to seeking truth through reason and exploration, convinced that the more they know, the more they will understand their purpose.

 

The Reality: While knowledge is valuable, it does not provide ultimate meaning. Some of the most intelligent and educated individuals still struggle with depression, anxiety, and existential crisis. Human wisdom is limited and imperfect, while God’s wisdom is eternal and complete.

 

Example: The Foolishness of Worldly Wisdom. Many people assume that human intellect is the highest form of truth, but the Bible teaches us that God’s wisdom surpasses all human understanding. 1 Corinthians 1:25 – "The foolishness of God is wiser than human wisdom."

This verse reminds us that even the greatest minds in history cannot grasp the full depth of God’s wisdom. No amount of knowledge can replace the need for faith in the One who created all things.

 

D. Pleasure & Entertainment: The Temporary Escape That Never Lasts. In an attempt to avoid pain, stress, or emptiness, many people seek meaning through pleasure, entertainment, and distractions. They turn to things like:

 

Parties, alcohol, and drugs to escape their struggles.

Movies, video games, and social media to numb their emotions.

Casual relationships, thrill-seeking, or risky behavior to feel alive.

 

The Reality: Pleasure is temporary and often leaves people feeling even more empty than before. The more people chase thrills and distractions, the more they realize they need even more to feel the same excitement. Instead of fulfilling them, worldly pleasures often lead to addiction, regret, and a sense of meaninglessness.

 

Example: The Deceptive Path That Leads to Destruction. Many people believe they are pursuing happiness when, in reality, they are heading toward spiritual emptiness.

Proverbs 14:12 – "There is a way that seems right to a man, but in the end it leads to death."

This verse warns us that what feels right in the moment is not always what is truly good for us. Temporary pleasures may provide momentary happiness, but they can never offer eternal fulfillment.

 

The Final Truth: We Were Created for Something Greater. All of these worldly pursuits — success, relationships, knowledge, and pleasure—promise fulfillment, but they never deliver lasting peace or joy. Why? Because we were not created to find meaning in temporary things.

We were created for a greater purpose: to know, love, and serve God. Until we recognize this truth, we will continue to chase after things that do not satisfy—always searching, always wanting more, and always feeling empty.

 

The Bible reminds us that our hearts will only find rest in God. Ecclesiastes 3:11 – "He has set eternity in the human heart." This means that nothing in this temporary world can fill the eternal longing inside of us—only God can.

 

3. The True Answer: Understanding God’s Purpose for Our Lives. For thousands of years, humanity has searched for meaning, asking, “Why are we here? What is our purpose?” But the answer has never been hidden—it has always been clearly revealed in God’s Word.

The Bible tells us that our purpose is not something we have to invent or discover on our own—God created us with a specific reason in mind. He designed us for Himself, to reflect His glory, and to live in relationship with Him.

 

Isaiah 43:7 – "Everyone who is called by My name, whom I created for My glory, whom I formed and made." This verse makes it clear: God is the reason we exist. Our true fulfillment comes not from worldly success or temporary pleasures but from living according to the purpose for which we were created. 

 

So what exactly is this purpose? Let’s explore what the Bible says about why we were made and how we can experience true meaning in life.

 

A. We Were Created for a Deep and Personal Relationship with God

At the very core of our existence is one fundamental truth: God created us to know Him, love Him, and walk in relationship with Him. Unlike the world’s ever-changing philosophies about purpose, God’s plan for us has always been clear. He doesn’t leave us wandering, uncertain of our destiny—He has a divine plan for every single person.

 

Jeremiah 29:11 – "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." This verse reveals that God’s purpose for us is good—it is filled with hope, direction, and meaning. When we seek God and follow His will, we step into the life we were meant to live. However, a relationship with God is not just about knowing He exists—it’s about knowing Him personally, loving Him deeply, and choosing to live for Him each day.

 

B. We Find Meaning in Loving and Serving God. Once we understand that we were created for a relationship with God, the next step is learning how to live out that purpose.

 

Jesus summarized our ultimate mission in three key principles:

 

1. Loving God with Everything We Have. Our greatest purpose is to love God completely—with our heart, soul, and mind. This love is not just about feelings or emotions; it’s about devotion, obedience, and a deep desire to honor Him in all we do.

Matthew 22:37 – "Love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind."

When we love God fully, we begin to see life differently. Our priorities shift, our desires change, and we experience true joy and peace that the world cannot offer.

 

2. Loving Others as God Loves Us. God did not create us to live for ourselves alone—He calls us to love and serve others just as He has loved us.

Matthew 22:39 – "Love your neighbor as yourself." This means showing kindness, compassion, and forgiveness to those around us. It means putting aside selfish ambitions and choosing to live a life that reflects Christ’s love and selflessness. When we love others the way God intended, we experience the deep satisfaction that comes from living with purpose beyond ourselves.

 

3. Sharing the Good News of Jesus with the World. One of the most important aspects of our purpose is sharing God’s love with others and leading them to Him. Jesus gave His followers a clear mission:

Matthew 28:19 – "Go and make disciples of all nations."

This means we are called to:

Tell others about Jesus and His gift of salvation.

Live as a light in the world, demonstrating God’s love through our actions.

Help others grow in their faith, guiding them toward a deeper relationship with God.

When we dedicate our lives to loving God, loving others, and spreading His message, we experience the true fulfillment we have been searching for.

This is the life God created us to live!

 

Reflection Questions: Searching Your Heart for True Purpose

Take a moment to reflect on these important questions:

Have you ever felt like something was “missing” in life? Why do you think that is?

Which worldly pursuit (success, love, knowledge, pleasure) have you chased? Did it truly satisfy you, or did it leave you wanting more?

How would knowing God’s purpose for your life change the way you view your future?

These are not just surface-level questions—they are meant to challenge and inspire you to examine what truly brings meaning to your life.

 

Conclusion: Stop Searching—The Answer Has Always Been Here

The world constantly offers temporary solutions to the question of purpose, but none of them bring eternal fulfillment. The truth is we don’t have to keep searching for meaning—God has already revealed it.

Our purpose is simple yet powerful:

✔ We were created to know and love God.

✔ We find true joy in loving and serving Him.

✔ We are called to share His truth with the world.

When we live in this purpose, our lives take on a new meaning, filled with joy, peace, and direction.

 

Final Thought: Answering God’s Invitation to a Fulfilled Life

If you have been searching for meaning in all the wrong places, God is calling you today. He wants you to stop chasing empty pursuits and come into the life He designed for you.

Matthew 11:28 – "Come to Me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest."

This is your personal invitation to step into a life of true peace, purpose, and fulfillment—a life that can only be found in Jesus Christ.

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